When we love ourselves, really love ourselves, we begin to only notice love outside ourselves. Meaning we pay attention to and become magnets for … love.  We choose to love everything about ourselves, so we can love everything outside of ourselves. And that mirror we look into only reflects love.

11:11 is a powerful portal of psychic energy and enhanced awareness.  It’s an opportunity to jump into the next realm of your life with laser sharp focus, and an expanded heart. 

I have a question for you. 

What do you value?  In your life?  About your life?  What’s important to you?  Who do you value? What does it mean to value something?  What do you hold near and dear to your heart, your mind, and your thoughts?  This is important information to know, because your value system affects all areas of your life. 

I am a firm believer that your thoughts create your words, and then your words create your life. 

I have been talking about the balance of the Sacred Masculine and Divine Feminine for years now. It's infiltrated my heart, my writing, and all my relationships. When these energies come into balance we will experience a new world.  And it doesn’t have to be some big grandiose thing either.  It can be as simple as finding that balance within yourself.

I know it’s hard to focus right now. I know … I get it.  Especially for those of you directly or indirectly dealing with loss.  I know it’s hard – I’m having a hard time myself.    There’s so much isn’t there.  But you must.  You must breathe, you must stop moving and rest, and then get back up again and do your thing.  You must pray, you must love, you must know your super-human powers and use them. 

Meaning, if desire if just an energy … why not apply it to what’s happening now?  In this breath, in this eye gaze, in this embrace, in this moment. Because when you do that, you elevate the energy of the moment that is happening, creating a higher vibratory frequency to that moment.  Which then, will most likely create more of what you desire, simply because your vibe is higher. 

There is no end goal in the refining process. It's like smoothing out a stone and turning it 'into' a finely polished crystal.  The reality is that 'stone' was always perfect; it always caught the light from a Divine place.  And, every time it gets polished or is held in a different way, it catches the light in a unique, profound way. 

The Solar Eclipse opened up a portal that we all had (and still have) an opportunity to walk through.  A portal that supports us in thinking differently, dissolving our burdens, and observing ourselves as we are, in the Now.  

The present astrological events of this New Moon Virgo pretty much at the Autumn Equinox, is bringing it all home.  When we entered this New Moon energy we came in as one thing and are now BEing released as quite another.

This blog from my book Oms From the Heart

And in that one breath that we take, very consciously, we are offered a nano-second to discipline our thoughts so they are more in alignment with who we are and what we desire.  We can notice before we react; before we fall into a pattern; before we go down the “wrong” path. 

Our intuition is being replaced by Google.  Face-to-face, heart-to-heart connection, replaced by texting that can be edited many times before hitting send.  Prayer limited to an app that has to be connected to Wi-Fi in order for it to work.

For the Love of Goddess …
what the hell are you going to do when the Wi-Fi goes down?

Life moves fast doesn’t it?  I guess in this neck of the woods it does anyway.  Seems like we are all moving faster, responding quicker, filling our calendar, checking our phones for answers, seeing how other people are responding, and blaming the way of the world on something outside ourselves seemingly out of our control.  

I’m not sure about you, but I have already felt a shift with this new energy from the Eclipse.  But I’m that way; I feel it all.  It’s time for new beginnings and new programming.  Which means, there may be a lot of letting go, struggling, or potentially questioning where your life is going.  

Or, on the other hand, if you’ve known that a new beginning is on the horizon, you now get to prepare.  Let me be clear about what I mean when I say a “new beginning.”  It can be a shift in location, in job, or in relationship. It can be a hard right turn, or a simple five-degree course correct. It could be as simple as beginning a new thought process or pattern that works better for your soul.

Read this full musing in my book Oms from the Heart

Because when something breaks apart, or down it’s really breaking through to something else.  Something you didn’t notice before.  Something you couldn’t have noticed without whatever transpired … no matter how uncomfortable it was.  And even in that breakthrough, you may experience MORE breakthroughs. Like how you reacted once you became the observer and noticed the real you … 

Read this original musing in my book Oms from the Mat

We create that which we desire and believe we deserve for ourselves in this lifetime. We are creative beings and the two most powerful words in the English language are “I am.” Saying “I am” is like summoning all the “powers who be” to us. They are just waiting to hear what it is we think we are so they can deliver.

Read this original musing in my book Oms from the Heart

We sit and we wait;  we wait for the breath of the Divine to guide us into our truth, and our purpose and we have patience as we observe our life and all the amazingness that happens as we move through each connection, each struggle, each embrace and each disappointment.  We have patience and when it’s right and it’s time .. we know.  That’s all … we just know.

I stare at the Moon often; actually have quite a love affair with Her these days.  And just this past weekend, I watched Her rise over Yosemite’s majestic landscape. I witnessed the ground vibrating beneath my feet while I was there.  Felt the cleansing water at Mirror Lake go right through to my soul.  In one day I was blessed to have hundreds of butterflies, several dragonflies, multiple Bluejays, and a huge brown bear cross my path.  I have watched the Sun set and Moon rise at the same time multiple times in my life.   In all these instances I was free.  Free in my mind, my heart, and my soul.  

Cancer is emotional underneath that hard shell.  Vulnerable and so very sweet and loveable, once you get past the tough outer coating of protection; and so are you.  Our heart is meant to love, to connect, to experience infinite, sensual, emotional love.  And we block it for so many reasons. 

But today, with this New Moon, we lay down our sword in surrender, and say yes to love, abundance, and deep emotionally healing.  

This word is so classic and traditional, isn’t it?  Kama:  desire, longing, passion, pleasure of the senses.  And, in contemporary literature, Kama often refers to sexual desire and longing however, the concept more broadly refers to any desire, wish, passion, longing, pleasure of the senses, simple enjoyment of life, affection, or love, with or without sexual connotations.